DougC wrote:
> How can I see what e-mail she has sent, or is there a log for seeing
> what has been sent to who? Thanks in advance

Spying on her is not the answer. If she is commiting the crime of going
behind your back, why commit a similar crime? If you are caught she can
claim abuse etc. etc.

You two have trust and fidelity issues and need to see a ***good*** marriage
counsellor .. pronto.