I am an engineer caught up in my job and have not balanced work and life well
enough. That said, back in July she had someone asking around if she was
married or not. Being married didn't stop him from stalking her until it
came close to me calling the head of Human Resources at their work to have
him stop. She did not like his advances. Both of them rotated jobs and
found themselves working together a few months later. She was organizing
Xmas gifts for people at work and I asked about one of them. She said it was
for him and I asked what changed. She said she was wrong about him and he
was quite pleasant. Last week I wondered my the cell phone bill was high and
went on line and found they had many long phone conversations. I ignored it
hoping it was nothing and would casually talk to her about it sometime. I
went through her wallet looking for a missing credit card last week and found
his business card with his home address hand written on the back. I went
through her planner and found a hand written map to his house. I went
through her dressor and found contraceptives with most gone. I've been fixed
for years. I have confronted her about all this and she says there is
nothing between them. I love my wife and even if she had an affair I would
keep her knowing how easily this sort of thing could happen. She has lost 75
Lbs over the past year and is quite beautiful. I get offers at work from
guys looking at her photos on my desk. She needs to earn my trust back, but
I don't think she's coming clean. I need to know more about what went on and
what continues to go on. They continue to work together. Thanks for
understanding.
--
Doug
"David Candy" wrote:
> Not in civilised countries it won't.
>
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> "dad2ten" <dad2ten7@discussions.microsoft.com> wrote in message news:CBD3B41F-59ED-4C20-ABDA-72AB84D28807@microsoft.com...
> > Yes it could help you get the house.
> > dad2ten
> >
> > "paul" wrote:
> >
> >>
> >> collecting such evidence may help you in any future legal procedings
> >>
> >>
> >> "dad2ten" <dad2ten7@discussions.microsoft.com> wrote in message
> >> news:72D0121C-06E0-4CE4-8D56-B7405BBFE751@microsoft.com...
> >> >
> >> >
> >> > If your wife is cheating, spying is certainly not the answer. You might
> >> > find
> >> > out something you don't want to know. What ever her reasons are, its
> >> > probably
> >> > not your fault. Some people are just that way, male or female, they simply
> >> > don't have the proper chemical balance to be honest.
> >> > Good luck, dad2ten
> >> >
> >> > "Michael Stevens" wrote:
> >> >
> >> >> In news:eZzz$McEGHA.2012@TK2MSFTNGP14.phx.gbl,
> >> >> David Candy <.> replied with a ;-)
> >> >> > All you people have no ethics.
> >> >> >
> >> >>
> >> >> What's this world coming to, spying on a cheater. 8-)
> >> >>
> >> >> --
> >> >> Michael Stevens MS-MVP XP
> >> >> xpnews@bogusmichaelstevenstech.com
> >> >> http://www.michaelstevenstech.com
> >> >> For a better newsgroup experience. Setup a newsreader.
> >> >> http://www.michaelstevenstech.com/ou...snewreader.htm
> >> >>
> >> >>
> >> >>
> >> >> >>
> >> >> >> "DougC" <DougC@discussions.microsoft.com> wrote in message
> >> >> >> news:7375A591-46EF-4CBD-A9DB-74947C117AD0@microsoft.com...
> >> >> >>> How can I see what e-mail she has sent, or is there a log for
> >> >> >>> seeing what has
> >> >> >>> been sent to who? Thanks in advance
> >> >> >>> --
> >> >> >>> Doug
> >> >> >>
> >> >> >> If she is using Outlook Express you can setup a logfile that she may
> >> >> >> not notice.
> >> >> >>
> >> >> >> Goto "Tools" > "Options" and click on the "Maintenance" tab.
> >> >> >> Near the bottom under 'troubleshooting' you will see a check box for
> >> >> >> "Mail". Check this box and a logfile will be created that shows you
> >> >> >> everything she sends.
> >> >> >> If I am not mistaken the file will be named "smtp.log"
> >> >> >>
> >> >> >> HTH
> >> >>
> >> >>
> >> >>
> >> >>
> >>
> >>
> >>
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