Recovery of deleted e-mail:
http://www.recovermyfiles.com/Recove...ted_email.html This usually works
as long as there hasn't been 'maintenance' or 'compaction' run against thet
target e-mail files...

Cheers!

"All Things Mopar" <nunofyour@beez.wax> wrote in message
news:Xns97425CF1A207FReplyID@216.196.97.131...
> Today =?Utf-8?B?Q2FyZXkgRnJpc2NoICBbTVZQXQ==?= commented
> courteously on the subject at hand
>
>> Windows XP does not have a log of email sent.
>> You'll have to logon to the account in question
>> and see if there is a record in the "Sent Items"
>> folder. If your wife was smart, she already deleted
>> those emails.
>
> True, but depending on what E-mail client was used, it's highly
> likely that "sent" messages can be recovered. I'm assuming, of
> course that hubby has admin priveleges...
>
> --
> ATM, aka Jerry
>
> "Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately
> explained by stupidity!" - Hanlon's Razor

I have Win XP. How do I view the data file? Thanks. In re to ethics, I
will post a reply and maybe more people will see it my way.
--
Doug


"Winux P" wrote:

>
> "DougC" <DougC@discussions.microsoft.com> wrote in message
> news:7375A591-46EF-4CBD-A9DB-74947C117AD0@microsoft.com...
> : How can I see what e-mail she has sent, or is there a log for seeing what
> has
> : been sent to who? Thanks in advance
> : --
> : Doug
>
> Not unless the emails are kept, and if she's clever enough to compact the
> email data file after deleting emails... More difficult, assuming your using
> Outlook or Outlook Express.
>
> DougC, it is indeed stifling when a relationship reaches a point when one in
> it no longer wants to be involved, leaving the other in complete shock. It
> makes one realise that in this world nothing belongs to us. Confusion will
> turn to anger and depression, then behold, convalescence and the new person
> emerges. Why have a book DougC, when there are libraries, anyway that's the
> future for you.
>
> Are you an Administrator on the system? You should be able to reach in and
> grab yourself a copy of the her email data file and check it out. Even
> easier if you share it.
>
> - Winux P
>
>
>

I am an engineer caught up in my job and have not balanced work and life well
enough. That said, back in July she had someone asking around if she was
married or not. Being married didn't stop him from stalking her until it
came close to me calling the head of Human Resources at their work to have
him stop. She did not like his advances. Both of them rotated jobs and
found themselves working together a few months later. She was organizing
Xmas gifts for people at work and I asked about one of them. She said it was
for him and I asked what changed. She said she was wrong about him and he
was quite pleasant. Last week I wondered my the cell phone bill was high and
went on line and found they had many long phone conversations. I ignored it
hoping it was nothing and would casually talk to her about it sometime. I
went through her wallet looking for a missing credit card last week and found
his business card with his home address hand written on the back. I went
through her planner and found a hand written map to his house. I went
through her dressor and found contraceptives with most gone. I've been fixed
for years. I have confronted her about all this and she says there is
nothing between them. I love my wife and even if she had an affair I would
keep her knowing how easily this sort of thing could happen. She has lost 75
Lbs over the past year and is quite beautiful. I get offers at work from
guys looking at her photos on my desk. She needs to earn my trust back, but
I don't think she's coming clean. I need to know more about what went on and
what continues to go on. They continue to work together. Thanks for
understanding.
--
Doug


"David Candy" wrote:

> Not in civilised countries it won't.
>
> --
> --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
> Goodbye Web Diary
> http://margokingston.typepad.com/har....html#comments
> =================================================
> "dad2ten" <dad2ten7@discussions.microsoft.com> wrote in message news:CBD3B41F-59ED-4C20-ABDA-72AB84D28807@microsoft.com...
> > Yes it could help you get the house.
> > dad2ten
> >
> > "paul" wrote:
> >
> >>
> >> collecting such evidence may help you in any future legal procedings
> >>
> >>
> >> "dad2ten" <dad2ten7@discussions.microsoft.com> wrote in message
> >> news:72D0121C-06E0-4CE4-8D56-B7405BBFE751@microsoft.com...
> >> >
> >> >
> >> > If your wife is cheating, spying is certainly not the answer. You might
> >> > find
> >> > out something you don't want to know. What ever her reasons are, its
> >> > probably
> >> > not your fault. Some people are just that way, male or female, they simply
> >> > don't have the proper chemical balance to be honest.
> >> > Good luck, dad2ten
> >> >
> >> > "Michael Stevens" wrote:
> >> >
> >> >> In news:eZzz$McEGHA.2012@TK2MSFTNGP14.phx.gbl,
> >> >> David Candy <.> replied with a ;-)
> >> >> > All you people have no ethics.
> >> >> >
> >> >>
> >> >> What's this world coming to, spying on a cheater. 8-)
> >> >>
> >> >> --
> >> >> Michael Stevens MS-MVP XP
> >> >> xpnews@bogusmichaelstevenstech.com
> >> >> http://www.michaelstevenstech.com
> >> >> For a better newsgroup experience. Setup a newsreader.
> >> >> http://www.michaelstevenstech.com/ou...snewreader.htm
> >> >>
> >> >>
> >> >>
> >> >> >>
> >> >> >> "DougC" <DougC@discussions.microsoft.com> wrote in message
> >> >> >> news:7375A591-46EF-4CBD-A9DB-74947C117AD0@microsoft.com...
> >> >> >>> How can I see what e-mail she has sent, or is there a log for
> >> >> >>> seeing what has
> >> >> >>> been sent to who? Thanks in advance
> >> >> >>> --
> >> >> >>> Doug
> >> >> >>
> >> >> >> If she is using Outlook Express you can setup a logfile that she may
> >> >> >> not notice.
> >> >> >>
> >> >> >> Goto "Tools" > "Options" and click on the "Maintenance" tab.
> >> >> >> Near the bottom under 'troubleshooting' you will see a check box for
> >> >> >> "Mail". Check this box and a logfile will be created that shows you
> >> >> >> everything she sends.
> >> >> >> If I am not mistaken the file will be named "smtp.log"
> >> >> >>
> >> >> >> HTH
> >> >>
> >> >>
> >> >>
> >> >>
> >>
> >>
> >>
>

I was DougC two years ago. Take it easy on him, it isn't any fun, believe
me.. Give him the advice he asks for, and disregard the reason for his
inquiry. If you have not walked a mile in those shoes you honestly cannot
understand.... TMI? probably for this group, but cut him some slack :-)

"DougC" wrote:

> How can I see what e-mail she has sent, or is there a log for seeing what has
> been sent to who? Thanks in advance
> --
> Doug

Sad to hear that, man. If it carries on, you may have to uninstall her and
reinstall a newer version

Jon


"DougC" <DougC@discussions.microsoft.com> wrote in message
news:E53AEFFA-0B42-43D4-A2A7-16F21A3BB0EB@microsoft.com...
>I am an engineer caught up in my job and have not balanced work and life
>well
> enough. That said, back in July she had someone asking around if she was
> married or not. Being married didn't stop him from stalking her until it
> came close to me calling the head of Human Resources at their work to have
> him stop. She did not like his advances. Both of them rotated jobs and
> found themselves working together a few months later. She was organizing
> Xmas gifts for people at work and I asked about one of them. She said it
> was
> for him and I asked what changed. She said she was wrong about him and he
> was quite pleasant. Last week I wondered my the cell phone bill was high
> and
> went on line and found they had many long phone conversations. I ignored
> it
> hoping it was nothing and would casually talk to her about it sometime. I
> went through her wallet looking for a missing credit card last week and
> found
> his business card with his home address hand written on the back. I went
> through her planner and found a hand written map to his house. I went
> through her dressor and found contraceptives with most gone. I've been
> fixed
> for years. I have confronted her about all this and she says there is
> nothing between them. I love my wife and even if she had an affair I
> would
> keep her knowing how easily this sort of thing could happen. She has lost
> 75
> Lbs over the past year and is quite beautiful. I get offers at work from
> guys looking at her photos on my desk. She needs to earn my trust back,
> but
> I don't think she's coming clean. I need to know more about what went on
> and
> what continues to go on. They continue to work together. Thanks for
> understanding.
> --
> Doug
>
>
> "David Candy" wrote:
>
>> Not in civilised countries it won't.
>>
>> --
>> --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
>> Goodbye Web Diary
>> http://margokingston.typepad.com/har....html#comments
>> =================================================
>> "dad2ten" <dad2ten7@discussions.microsoft.com> wrote in message
>> news:CBD3B41F-59ED-4C20-ABDA-72AB84D28807@microsoft.com...
>> > Yes it could help you get the house.
>> > dad2ten
>> >
>> > "paul" wrote:
>> >
>> >>
>> >> collecting such evidence may help you in any future legal procedings
>> >>
>> >>
>> >> "dad2ten" <dad2ten7@discussions.microsoft.com> wrote in message
>> >> news:72D0121C-06E0-4CE4-8D56-B7405BBFE751@microsoft.com...
>> >> >
>> >> >
>> >> > If your wife is cheating, spying is certainly not the answer. You
>> >> > might
>> >> > find
>> >> > out something you don't want to know. What ever her reasons are, its
>> >> > probably
>> >> > not your fault. Some people are just that way, male or female, they
>> >> > simply
>> >> > don't have the proper chemical balance to be honest.
>> >> > Good luck, dad2ten
>> >> >
>> >> > "Michael Stevens" wrote:
>> >> >
>> >> >> In news:eZzz$McEGHA.2012@TK2MSFTNGP14.phx.gbl,
>> >> >> David Candy <.> replied with a ;-)
>> >> >> > All you people have no ethics.
>> >> >> >
>> >> >>
>> >> >> What's this world coming to, spying on a cheater. 8-)
>> >> >>
>> >> >> --
>> >> >> Michael Stevens MS-MVP XP
>> >> >> xpnews@bogusmichaelstevenstech.com
>> >> >> http://www.michaelstevenstech.com
>> >> >> For a better newsgroup experience. Setup a newsreader.
>> >> >> http://www.michaelstevenstech.com/ou...snewreader.htm
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >> >>
>> >> >> >> "DougC" <DougC@discussions.microsoft.com> wrote in message
>> >> >> >> news:7375A591-46EF-4CBD-A9DB-74947C117AD0@microsoft.com...
>> >> >> >>> How can I see what e-mail she has sent, or is there a log for
>> >> >> >>> seeing what has
>> >> >> >>> been sent to who? Thanks in advance
>> >> >> >>> --
>> >> >> >>> Doug
>> >> >> >>
>> >> >> >> If she is using Outlook Express you can setup a logfile that she
>> >> >> >> may
>> >> >> >> not notice.
>> >> >> >>
>> >> >> >> Goto "Tools" > "Options" and click on the "Maintenance" tab.
>> >> >> >> Near the bottom under 'troubleshooting' you will see a check box
>> >> >> >> for
>> >> >> >> "Mail". Check this box and a logfile will be created that shows
>> >> >> >> you
>> >> >> >> everything she sends.
>> >> >> >> If I am not mistaken the file will be named "smtp.log"
>> >> >> >>
>> >> >> >> HTH
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >>
>> >>
>> >>
>>

If you're using Outlook, you can open up another or even import the emails
from the File|Open>Outlook Data File... (version 2003). I think it my be
similar in version 2002 (XP). Can't remember off the top of my head how to
do so in Outlook 2000 but, I assure it can be done, even in 97. If your
using Outlook Express it's in the File|Import>|Messages... menu. As for the
data files usually the case if your using WinXP (even 2000), unless
ohtherwise configured by the user;

Outlook Data File Location:
C:\Documents and Settings\YOURNAME\\Local Settings\Application
Data\Microsoft\Outlook\

Outlook Express Data File Location:
C:\Documents and Settings\YOURNAME\Local Settings\Application
Data\{FE11B425-E877-5A69-C54B-013FDFD32E09}\Microsoft\Outlook Express\

Where the {....} is different for every one so I made it up.

The file for Outlook Express is typically Inbox.dbx but, if specific folders
have been created it could be like, "Harry.dbx", "Work Emails.dbx", "Golf
Club.dbx". Sent emails would typically be in "Sent Items.dbx"

Outlook usally has it all in one big file and will have the extension *.pst.

- Winux P


"DougC" <DougC@discussions.microsoft.com> wrote in message
news:18E22602-3E70-4DA9-AEAC-7887816441BB@microsoft.com...
:I have Win XP. How do I view the data file? Thanks. In re to ethics, I
: will post a reply and maybe more people will see it my way.
: --
: Doug
:
:
: "Winux P" wrote:
:
: >
: > "DougC" <DougC@discussions.microsoft.com> wrote in message
: > news:7375A591-46EF-4CBD-A9DB-74947C117AD0@microsoft.com...
: > : How can I see what e-mail she has sent, or is there a log for seeing
what
: > has
: > : been sent to who? Thanks in advance
: > : --
: > : Doug
: >
: > Not unless the emails are kept, and if she's clever enough to compact
the
: > email data file after deleting emails... More difficult, assuming your
using
: > Outlook or Outlook Express.
: >
: > DougC, it is indeed stifling when a relationship reaches a point when
one in
: > it no longer wants to be involved, leaving the other in complete shock.
It
: > makes one realise that in this world nothing belongs to us. Confusion
will
: > turn to anger and depression, then behold, convalescence and the new
person
: > emerges. Why have a book DougC, when there are libraries, anyway that's
the
: > future for you.
: >
: > Are you an Administrator on the system? You should be able to reach in
and
: > grab yourself a copy of the her email data file and check it out. Even
: > easier if you share it.
: >
: > - Winux P
: >
: >
: >

On Thu, 05 Jan 2006 00:47:29 -0500, Unk <not@aol.com>
Eingereicht:

>On Wed, 4 Jan 2006 20:22:03 -0800, "DougC" <DougC@discussions.microsoft.com> wrote:
>
>>How can I see what e-mail she has sent, or is there a log for seeing what has
>>been sent to who? Thanks in advance
>
>
>Confucius say, "Man who loses key to wife's heart get no new-key!"
>
Old Confucius came up with some pretty good ones. I remember the
one...Confucius say, "Thai man who walk through airport turnstile
sideways going to Bangkok."